SEXUAL SELF

MASTERY

For Men

Harness your sexual energy with integrity & let it move through every part of your life: your vitality, how you walk into a room & everything you bring to the lover in front of you.

Begins September 30, 2026

*Early bird pricing through September 6th!

Become the best lover she has ever had.

SSM is a 3 month training for men who want:

✨Control over your sexual energy so it doesn’t control you.
✨Be a safe man but an exciting, ravishing lover
✨To retrain your system to last longer & get harder
✨To learn advanced sexual practices for performance & depth
✨To know how to lead with your specific sexual style/archetypes
✨To wield their sexual power with mastery

Fuck yeah. Get that early bird discount.

Yes, Sexual Self Mastery is a practical course that provides step-by-step practices on sexual skills.

But it’s way deeper than that.

SSM helps you shift your relationship to sex on a fundamental level.
It provides you the tools to have sex with an entirely upgraded approach.

Sure, she’ll be impressed with your new techniques and understanding of women’s anatomy.

But she'll be blown away by the unexplainable way that her body and heart open to you.

The feeling of your energy.

The ineffable je ne sais quoi in the way you love.

Throughout this program, we focus on transforming your conditioning and your nervous system to become a more grounded & masterful lover.

SSM helps you cultivate a presence that is deeply attractive, making you a solid and exciting lover who doesn't chase or withhold love. Safe, sexy, and in integrity. All at the same time. 🤯

It invites you to do the very thing that sets you apart from other men:

To feel yourself.

To know yourself.

To be yourself.

And take her on a journey from there.

I'm Fabienne,

I am a certified sex & relationship coach & I help men around the world to embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient Tantric & Taoist practices & therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience.

Why learn from a woman, you might ask? I bring an insider's perspective on what women truly desire, helping you embody the qualities that attract & deeply satisfy- physically, mentally, & spiritually. (That and I went to school specifically to research men's sexuality!) Learning sexual mastery from a woman gives you unique insights and advantages that will uplevel your game to the Nth degree.

Come for the
better sex...

Stay for the

•increased motivation

•clearer life purpose

•unshakable confidence

•increased cognitive function

•overall happiness & joy

•spiritual depth

•deeper relationships

“Once I experienced sex like that, there weren’t any other options. I only wanted to be with a man who could make love on that level.

No matter how “skilled” other men have been, nothing has come close to him. He felt me like no other man has. He opened me like no other man has.

He left an imprint on me that can only be matched by that level of depth or more.”

-The female lover of a past SSM participant

Is this you?

You finish faster than you want to- and it's starting to shape how present you can actually be during sex.
You know there's a deeper, more embodied way to experience sex and intimacy but you don't have the tools or map to get there.
You "perform" well, but you're in your head the whole time instead of actually in your body.
You sense there's more available to you sexually and energetically, and want to learn it from someone who actually understands what women want.
You have read plenty of books but find them incredibly dry & conceptual. You want to actually train. And with all that you're handling in your life, you'd like someone to just give you a clear assignment please & thank you.
You want to feel confident taking your lover on a journey that doesn't feel performative.
You're curious about "energy" but you're also a deeply practical dude.

Sign me up!

What results can you expect?

Just like training at the gym, you need to show up and do your reps to see results. If you show up and do your recorded practices, you can expect to see big shifts.

Physical:

-More control over if and when you ejaculate

-Experience harder erections and last longer

-Have the tools to experience full-bodied, non-ejaculatory orgasms.

-Increase testosterone

Energetic:

-Feel sexier, more magnetic, & more confident, in the bedroom & out

-Rewire your nervous system to be able to hold greater levels of turn-on and internal power.

Relational:

-Experience greater intimacy during sex

-Understand what your lover most deeply craves and become their literal dream lover

Yes, please.

WE FOCUS ON EVOLVING YOUR SEXUALITY IN A TANGIBLE WAY.

Just understanding sexual practices isn't enough to make lasting effects.

This program provides a system that works by examining the psychology behind your sexual history and conditioning and then implementing practices to physically train your body in new, healthy ways.

Simultaneously, I'll be sharing the ins and outs of how women most deeply desire to be loved... (& fucked.)

I'll give you the tools to be the best lover she's ever had. To re-ignite the passion in your marriage. To attract incredible, high-caliber women.

This is not just about sexual skills, but also:

energetic mastery
emotional intelligence
masculine grounding
breath, presence, creative energy
relational leadership
embodiment

SSM not only retrains your nervous system but actually brings you into deeper integrity so you become a safer and sexier man.

What others are saying...

"This is such a well run course. It is so practical & practice driven. I have taken a bunch of men’s sexuality courses & this one is really tying things in for me, and giving me a deeper understanding of the topics. I am having regular breakthroughs. I can’t thank you enough." - Ari

I’m noticing more clarity about what I want in a partner. I'm discovering more options in how I can operate sexually. And my cock actually feels better.

— Andrew

Since starting SSM I’ve noticed more sensations, more control. I feel more calm, focused & present in the day. During the practices I'm feeling extremely strong orgasmic feelings while still feeling very in control.

— Elan

I notice my general sex drive is more online, I feel more polarized and willing to engage. Once engaged I feel notably more present, passionate.

— Danny

I really appreciate that you don’t tiptoe around certain questions. I’m able to get right into the heart of things when I hear your questions.

— Benjamin

Amazing course so far. The guided practices are the best I have ever experienced in a course, & I have taken a few.

— Rob

YOU WILL LEARN...

•How frequent, unconscious ejaculation affects your hormones and brain chemistry & how to increase neural health and performance through semen retention & conscious ejaculation.

•Different approaches to semen retention & energetic mastery, including Tantra, Taoist practices, Chinese medicine, and modern neuroscience.

•How to separate orgasm from ejaculation so you can experience multiple full-bodied orgasms that leave you filled with energy, focus, mental clarity, confidence, and motivation.

•How to rewire your sexual "performance" by training your relationship to masturbation.

•Investigating and developing your own flavor of sexy and how to bring this energy into your life.

THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU IF…

You recognize the capacity within yourself to be a deeply powerful lover.
You want to better understand yourself and what drives you.
You are in the small percentage of men who will dedicate themselves to understanding how to be a sexual leader.
You are ready to commit yourself to a practice and hold yourself accountable to making shifts in your mindset and actions in the direction of a more integrated, pleasurable, and connected life.

Sign me up.

Module 1: Building Your Toolbelt

Module 2: Developing Self Practice

Module 3: Take Back Your Energy

Module 4: Masculine Shadow

Module 5: Male Sensuality

Module 6: The Power of Presence

Module 7: Being a Leader in the Bedroom

Module 8: Sexual Creativity

Please Note: This program is an intensive and requires you to set aside a good amount of time for your practice. In addition to the live calls, you are asked to set aside 25 minutes for your morning practice and an additional 30 minutes 1-3 times a week to training practices.

**What's included in Sexual Self Mastery:**

6+ hours of recorded instructional videos
Recorded morning practices for strengthening the energetic body and anchoring the techniques into your system
Guided pleasure practices for a deep embodied understanding of the teachings. No boring books with confusing diagrams.
Journal prompts for self-investigation and awareness
Lifetime access to course content (*see FAQ for details)

Bonus:

Recorded pelvic floor strengthening, toning, and relaxation practice
Additional practice recordings with music and soundscapes to help you drop in even deeper