A 12 week intensive for men on Erotic Artistry & Embodied Technique


Begins September, 2024

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 Become the best lover she has ever had.

By cultivating personal discipline and self mastery, you get to choose where you pour your energy, focus, attention.

You get to choose how your sex and your life look and feel.

Unlearn your sexual conditioning to become a top-tier lover. 

Come for the better sex...
Stay for the
•increased motivation
•clearer life purpose
•increased cognitive function
•overall happiness
•spiritual depth
•deeper relationships

Sound familiar?

•You want to have more control over your sexual energy so it doesn’t control you.

•You want to last longer in bed. You want to get harder.

•You want to drop out of your head and into your body so you can have amazing sex.

•You get the sense that there’s more to sex than what you’ve been experiencing.

•You're caught between wanting to be a safe man and an exciting, ravishing lover. 

•You want to feel more connected to your own turn on & sexual style. 


What results can you expect?

Just like training at the gym, you need to show up and do your reps to see results. If you show up and do your recorded practices, you can expect to...


-Have more control over if and when you ejaculate

-Experience harder erections and last longer

-Have the tools to experience full-bodied, non-ejaculatory orgasms.


-Feel sexier, more magnetic, & more confident, in the bedroom & out

 -Experience greater intimacy during sex

-Understand what your lover most deeply craves and become their literal dream lover


-Increase testosterone

-Develop a healthy realtionship to sex

-Rewire your nervous system to be able to hold greater levels of turn-on and internal power.

I'm ready.



Just understanding sexual practices isn't enough to make lasting effects.


This program provides a system that works by examining the psychology behind your sexual history and conditioning and then implementing  practices to physically train your body in new, healthy ways.


Simultaneously, I'll be sharing the ins and outs of how women most deeply desire to be fucked. In detail.


I'll give you the tools to be the best lover she's ever had. To re-ignite the passion in your marriage. To attract incredible, high-caliber women.


I'm Fabienne, 

I am a sex, life, and relating coach, mentor, & teacher. I help men around the world embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and  therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience.

I bring the perspective of a woman so you can understand how to best embody what it is that women want. 

 I believe that self-mastery is key to a fulfilling life and that sexuality is the clearest mirror and access point for the rest of our lives.

I have a no-bullshit approach to this work. I don’t teach anything that I have not personally experimented with, experienced, or witnessed.

What others are saying...

"This is such a well run course. It is so practical and practice driven.  I have taken a bunch of men’s sexuality courses and this one is really tying things in for me, and giving me a deeper understanding of the topics. I am having regular breakthroughs.  I can’t thank you enough."

- Ari

I never new what people were talking about when they say a heart orgasm, but I feel it and understand it now.  Thank you so much for expanding my experiences!  Truly life changing.  Appreciate this course so much!

— Aaron

I’m noticing more awareness & more clarity about what I want in a partner. I'm beginning to discover more options in how I can operate sexually. My cock actually feels better, I hadn’t realized it needed some good stretching and massaging that isn’t masturbation.

— Andrew

I notice my general sex drive is more online, I feel more polarized and willing to engage. Once engaged I feel notably more present, passionate.

— Danny

I really appreciate that you don’t tiptoe around certain questions. I’m able to get right into the heart of things when I hear your questions.

— Benjamin

Amazing course so far. The guided practices are the best I have ever experienced in these courses, I have taken a few.

— Rob

Since starting SSM I’ve noticed more sensations, more control. After the morning practices I feel more calm, focused & present in the day. During the warm practices I'm feeling extremely strong orgasm type feelings while still feeling very in control.

— Elan


-You will be invited to take responsibility for your own sexual energy, giving yourself more power over your turn on.

-You will learn how to harness your turn-on so you can use it with deeply grounded awareness. Through this you will turn yourself and others on just by existing.

-You will develop a sense of self-mastery by gaining an understanding of yourself and how to harness and move sexual energy throughout the body. . 

-You will learn about semen-retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms to help boost your energy levels, focus, mental clarity, confidence, and motivation.                     

-You will explore how to be a more creative lover.

-You will look at your relationship to masturbation and how you can reframe your approach to sex by training your relationship to self pleasure.

-You will investigate and develop your own flavor of sexy and how to bring this energy into your life. 


•How frequent, unconscious ejaculation affects your hormones and brain chemistry and how to increase neural health and performance through semen retention and conscious ejaculation. 

•Different approaches to semen retention and energetic mastery, including Indian Tantra, Taoist practices, Chinese medicine, and modern neuroscience.

•How to separate orgasm from ejaculation so you can experience full-bodied orgasms that leave you filled with energy. 


  • You have a penis.

  • You are curious to learn more about semen retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms and begin or deepen a practice. 

  • You have a feeling that there is more to your sexuality than you are currently accessing.

  • You want to better understand yourself and what drives you. 

  • You want to be the best lover you can be.

  • You want to better understand your lovers and how to meet them, please them, and feel them more deeply. 

  • You are ready to commit yourself to a practice and hold yourself accountable to making shifts in your mindset and actions in the direction of a more integrated, pleasurable, and connected life. 


  • You are looking for someone else to do the work for you. You are asked to take 100% responsibility for your own transformation. I am here to offer tools and structure but the practices only work if you do!

  • You think transformation happens just in the mind. This course includes lots of information, but the pieces that facilitate change are the embodied practices.

  • You want a quick fix. Dedication and showing up for yourself is everything.

  • You want to learn about this entirely on your own. This course involves talking to others within the group about your experience. You don’t need to share anything you’re not comfortable with sharing but you are asked to step into vulnerability and support with the others in the group.

  • You don’t expect yourself to set aside time for the practices in your schedule. Again, the responsibility is on you. This is an intensive and requires about 7 hours of focused time per week. 

Please Note: This course is an intensive and requires you to set aside a good amount of time for your practice. You are asked to set aside 25 minutes for your morning practice and an additional 30 minutes 1-3 times a week to training practices. There is also a 90 minute live call every week.


Please only join the course if you are fully prepared to carve out time and commit to your practices.

What is included in Sexual Self Mastery:

  • Twelve weekly 90 min live trainings and Q&A (Tuesdays at 10 am PST or Wednesdays at 5 pm; you can commit to either cohort, depending on your schedule)
    The first calls are on September 24 & 25

  • 6+ hours of recorded instructional videos

  • Weekly recorded morning practices for strengthening the energetic body and anchoring the techniques into your system

  • Weekly guided pleasure practices for a deep embodied understanding of the teachings

  • Journal prompts for self-investigation and awareness

  • Access to a members-only group to be part of a group of like-minded men to initiate connection and accountability

  • Lifetime access to course content (*see FAQ for details)


  • Recorded pelvic floor strengthening, toning, and relaxation practice

  • Additional practice recordings each week with music and soundscapes to help you drop in even deeper


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